How to text someone you actually like.
Texting gets harder the more you like someone, because every message feels like it counts. It does not. The thread is a conversation, not an exam.
The fastest fix is to send the normal version of what you wanted to say.
Why it feels so difficult
Overthinking usually comes from trying to control the outcome with wording. You cannot. What you can control is being warm, specific and clear about what you want.
That clarity is attractive on its own, and it also saves you weeks of guessing.
What you can say
- 1Reference something only the two of you have talked about.
- 2Say one honest thing rather than five hedged ones.
- 3Ask them out instead of hinting at it.
- 4Send it before you have edited the personality out of it.
Example messages
This song came on and I immediately thought of your terrible taste. Enjoy.
I like talking to you. Would you like to get a drink this week?
Warning: I'm about to ask you out properly. Are you free Friday?
What to avoid
- ✕Drafting a message for an hour.
- ✕Testing them with vague messages to see how they respond.
- ✕Pretending to be less interested than you are.
When to leave the conversation alone
If you have been clear and they have not matched it, believe them. Someone interested makes it easy eventually.
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